Tuesday, December 7, 2010

The Trouble With Love Is

Love isn't the problem, our expectations are.

All too often, you will hear people complaining about love "Love did me wrong again" some will say.

But really, how can love be the problem?

Love is as it has always been. Love doesn't change when we are in a relationship but our expectations do.

The problem with love is that our ego creates expectations, goals, desires and hopes of what love should be. When these desires are not obtained, it appears that love has caused us problems yet again.

Love isn't the problem. Our desires are.

Learn to have no expectations of your partner. When we have no expectations then love can do us no wrong.

Welcome problems with a :) because even problems are merely love in disguise.