You can lose your loved one very quickly by being possessive because you choke them to death. (oh noooo!!!)
People that possess, don't love. They just want to own. (really? I dun think so! What if I do really love him so much? Okei, maybe I can accept this..I love him so much, and I want to own him..okei?)
Next!
The possessive person has an illness also. It is the lack of their own beauty, their own perfection, thus they must own someone else, so they can reflect their own emptiness in them. Possessiveness is emptiness. (Sigh)
I must face up to these qualities in myself so that I do not drive the person I love away.
Of course there are many other reasons, such as boredom, unshared interests, and going in different directions, but these are all minor compared to the gross illness that one thinks is love.
So we now know that possessiveness is not love. It is grasping, stifling and suffocating. It is in fact just an ugly trait to have.
If you are possessive, you need to help yourself...(Understood!)
