Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Suspicious

When jealousy strikes, people often compare themselves to their rival, they feel threatened, and they imagine the worse case scenario, that their partner might leave them for someone else. But here, am not goin to talk about jealousy..In fact, i AM the green eyed monster! Rawrrr!

I think i am sick of having suspicious mind. I am trying to give up this bad habit but failed always. Suspicion eats at the heart, gradually destroying every bit of trust that may have already been built up in the relationship. You can't hide suspicion because it drives you inwards. Understanding suspicion can work to your benefit because if your partner is suspicious of you, it gives you to clues into what they have done or think of doing.

So how to deal with it?

Discuss your concerns with your partner..talk about insecurities.
Don't make any rash decisions or jump to conclusions.
Last resort, try to erase doubts!

If you find you are suspicious then you need to help yourself.

Think Positive! :)